Repeat after me: CHOOSE YOUR HARD.
That girl in the first video? She'd been through a lot. But she decided it was time. Exercise is hard, eating healthy is hard, working out when you'd rather be watching your favorite show is hard. But you know what? Being obese is hard. Seeing that image in the mirror every day was hard. Getting beat by your 7 year old at a race was hard.
CHOOSE. YOUR. HARD. You got this, I'm on the journey with you!